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Why are so many married women having affairs or illegal relationship ?
Gone are the days when adultery was so taboo that affairs generally happened by accident. Now increasing numbers of women set out to stray as if extramarital s.. was just one more thing on their to-do list. Julia Llewellyn Smith reports
One of the challenges Sheila hadn't expected was where to hide her sexy lingerie. 'I went out and spent a fortune at Myla on gorgeous transparent bras and G-strings – things I'd stopped wearing for my husband, Peter, even before we were married.
'The problem was where to keep them and how to wash them? I could have worn them every day but after 13 years of greying M&S pants and flesh-coloured bras Peter would have been rightly suspicious. I ended up stuffing all my new buys inside the legs of a manky old tracksuit. I washed them by hand, locked in the bathroom, and dried them with a hairdryer as I didn't dare hang them up.'
Sheila, from Buckinghamshire, is 46, a doctor and mother of two teenagers, and for the past year and a half she has been having an affair.
Tall, strong-featured and dressed in a cashmere sweater and wool trousers, Sheila is the kind of woman you see in the aisles of Waitrose, the front row of the school carol service. But once every fortnight or so she tells Peter, 48, a company director, that she's meeting a (well-briefed) girlfriend for dinner. Instead she goes to a motel room to see her lover, Michael, also 46, a medical sales rep whom she met at a conference.
'We have sex, we chat, we go back to our families,' Sheila tells me over a cappuccino. 'I'm not looking for a soul mate, I'm looking for physical release. I stopped fancying Peter years ago. The girls were small and sex with him had long been just another chore, like loading the dishwasher. Finding out that I could still enjoy a physical relationship was …' She searches for the word. 'Mind-blowing. I thought that whole side of my life had died, but with Michael it's been revived.'
